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Holiday Love Rats Forum- Love Stories or Red Flags? Latest Questions

Great_Minds
Great_MindsAdmin
Asked: January 6, 2024

It’s not uncommon for individuals to struggle with letting go of a relationship, especially when it involves a love rat. There are several psychological and emotional factors that contribute to this difficulty. Firstly, love rats often employ manipulative tactics that create a strong emotional bond. They may have presented themselves as caring and loving, making it challenging for you to accept the betrayal and move on. Additionally, the investment of time, emotions, and energy in the relationship can make it harder to detach. You may be holding onto the initial positive experiences and hoping for a return to that idealized version of the relationship. Feelings of embarrassment, shame, or self-blame can also contribute to the struggle in forgetting a love rat. Accepting that you were deceived can be emotionally taxing, and it may take time to process these emotions. To help you move forward, consider seeking support from friends, family, or a therapist. Talking ...Read more

It’s not uncommon for individuals to struggle with letting go of a relationship, especially when it involves a love rat. There are several psychological and emotional factors that contribute to this difficulty.

Firstly, love rats often employ manipulative tactics that create a strong emotional bond. They may have presented themselves as caring and loving, making it challenging for you to accept the betrayal and move on.

Additionally, the investment of time, emotions, and energy in the relationship can make it harder to detach. You may be holding onto the initial positive experiences and hoping for a return to that idealized version of the relationship.

Feelings of embarrassment, shame, or self-blame can also contribute to the struggle in forgetting a love rat. Accepting that you were deceived can be emotionally taxing, and it may take time to process these emotions.

To help you move forward, consider seeking support from friends, family, or a therapist. Talking about your feelings can provide valuable perspectives and assistance in navigating the healing process. Establishing new routines, focusing on self-care, and engaging in activities you enjoy can aid in the recovery journey.

Remember, healing from a deceptive relationship takes time, and it’s okay to seek professional help if needed. Be patient with yourself, and gradually, you’ll find the strength to let go and move on to healthier relationships.

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Love RatTunisian Love Rat
Tunisia Love Rats Group
Tunisia Love Rats GroupBeginner
Asked: April 28, 2024

So after a few weeks silence I get a message on a new number as I had blocked him He says I haven’t spoken to you because of your doubts and bad thoughts towards me.So i say no you haven’t spoke to me because I blocked you , your fingers must be red raw from stealing , your mouth poisoned from the lies you told me and your body dilapidated from all the women you have slept with, no reply because I’ve blocked him once again. Anonymous facebook group post https://www.facebook.com/groups/1477012806553891/permalink/1483667572555081/

So after a few weeks silence I get a message on a new number as I had blocked him He says I haven’t spoken to you because of your doubts and bad thoughts towards me.So i say no you haven’t spoke to me because I blocked you , your fingers must be red raw from stealing , your mouth poisoned from the lies you told me and your body dilapidated from all the women you have slept with, no reply because I’ve blocked him once again.

Anonymous facebook group post

https://www.facebook.com/groups/1477012806553891/permalink/1483667572555081/
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Tunisian Love RatTunisian love rats
Tunisia Love Rats Group
Tunisia Love Rats GroupBeginner
Asked: April 28, 2024

Hello dear ones. I have been in a relationship with Houssem Bedoui for 5 months now. We video chatted every day and I got to know his family in Tunisia and his uncle in Germany. i visited him back in Feb His parents were at our apartment for dinner and I met his friends. It was perfect. A week after I left, he suddenly didn’t want me to come visit him in the summer. And three or 4 days later he told me that his family and friends think I’m too old and they’re forcing him to end our relationship. https://www.facebook.com/groups/1477012806553891/permalink/1485266925728479/ Read more

Hello dear ones.
I have been in a relationship with Houssem Bedoui for 5 months now. We video chatted every day and I got to know his family in Tunisia and his uncle in Germany. i visited him back in Feb His parents were at our apartment for dinner and I met his friends. It was perfect. A week after I left, he suddenly didn’t want me to come visit him in the summer. And three or 4 days later he told me that his family and friends think I’m too old and they’re forcing him to end our relationship.
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Tunisian Love RatTunisian love rats
Tunisia Love Rats Group
Tunisia Love Rats GroupBeginner
Asked: April 28, 2024

Trouble is we meet them ,they know exactly how to woo you , doesnt matter how old or whether your fat or thin, ugly or beautiful if they think you have money they will pursue for a long long time ,sometimes years , then you find out they have a Tunisian wife and children ,and bang it breaks your heart , never again will I trust a Tunisian. https://www.facebook.com/groups/1477012806553891/permalink/1479183749670130/

Trouble is we meet them ,they know exactly how to woo you , doesnt matter how old or whether your fat or thin, ugly or beautiful if they think you have money they will pursue for a long long time ,sometimes years , then you find out they have a Tunisian wife and children ,and bang it breaks your heart , never again will I trust a Tunisian.

https://www.facebook.com/groups/1477012806553891/permalink/1479183749670130/
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Tunisian Love RatTunisian love rats
Tunisia Love Rats Group
Tunisia Love Rats GroupBeginner
Asked: April 28, 2024

I’m not dating anyone but there’s a man who has lived in my country for just under a year and he’s 18 years younger than me. Is it an almost certainty that he would be using me, if he wanted to date me? Anonymous facebook group post https://www.facebook.com/groups/1477012806553891/permalink/1481588422762996/

I’m not dating anyone but there’s a man who has lived in my country for just under a year and he’s 18 years younger than me. Is it an almost certainty that he would be using me, if he wanted to date me?

Anonymous facebook group post

https://www.facebook.com/groups/1477012806553891/permalink/1481588422762996/
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Tunisian Love RatTunisian love rats
Tunisia Love Rats Group
Tunisia Love Rats GroupBeginner
Asked: April 28, 2024

Wheres the post about the wannabe Pablo Escobar and his mule gone? Its rather annoying when people post and then delete, especially when members have taken time out of their day to answer! Anonymous facebook group post https://www.facebook.com/groups/1477012806553891/permalink/1495748998013605/

Wheres the post about the wannabe Pablo Escobar and his mule gone?
Its rather annoying when people post and then delete, especially when members have taken time out of their day to answer!
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Tunisian Love RatTunisian love rats
Tunisia Love Rats Group
Tunisia Love Rats GroupBeginner
Asked: April 28, 2024

Hi all. Although this isn’t a love rat exposed post I would love some advice. I will try to keep this as brief as possible… My sister recently finished with a man from Hammamet. She met him in Sept of last year, during a joint holiday with her friend (who was going out there to see her Tunisian boyfriend). Initially, my Sister was a bit reluctant as she wasn’t looking for anyone at the time etc but ended up falling for this man. He introduced her to his Mum & sisters, who he lives with, about 2 days after meeting. He was saying he wants to marry her very soon after meeting. She returned to the UK and were in touch constantly. She then flew back out on her own last Nov to see him. About a month ago, she told him she needed ...Read more

Hi all. Although this isn’t a love rat exposed post I would love some advice. I will try to keep this as brief as possible…
My sister recently finished with a man from Hammamet. She met him in Sept of last year, during a joint holiday with her friend (who was going out there to see her Tunisian boyfriend). Initially, my Sister was a bit reluctant as she wasn’t looking for anyone at the time etc but ended up falling for this man. He introduced her to his Mum & sisters, who he lives with, about 2 days after meeting. He was saying he wants to marry her very soon after meeting. She returned to the UK and were in touch constantly. She then flew back out on her own last Nov to see him. About a month ago, she told him she needed a break from him the constant video calls, messages, “love bombing”, was becoming too much. During this time he had threatened tl harm himself because of her threats to end things and he even ended up sending me photos on FB of him hooked up to a IV machine apparently in hospital from cutting his wrists. He also used to say how much his mum loves my sister like a daughter and she would message my sister to say how sad this man was etc. I don’t know if it was through guilt or genuine love, but my sister realised she still loved him and they resumed the (long distance) relationship.
Last week, she went out for drinks for a work friend’s leaving do and apparently he was bombarding her with calls and wasnt happy about it (apparently he has always been this way, very jealous about her having male work friends etc), and extremely possessive. She acknowledges that this is not the norm culturally in Tunisia to be going out as a woman drinking etc and also with him being Muslim, but she has realised that thinking into the future things will not work out and she is being pragmatic this time around rather than following her heart.
I guess what I am looking for is some advice on how to comfort her. This man does seem very lovely, and I do feel sad for my sister as she genuinely did care and love him. He has no kids nor does she and I think that was a nice thought for her too. Apparently he has never asked for any financial help either which normally sets off a dozen alarm bells. Does she really have a future with him or does she need to just cut things off for good?

Thanks for reading if you got this far! X

Anonymous Facebook group post

https://www.facebook.com/groups/1477012806553891/permalink/1497971404458031/
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Tunisian Love RatTunisian love rats
Tunisia Love Rats Group
Tunisia Love Rats GroupBeginner
Asked: April 28, 2024

I want to thank this group for the support and advice they give.I was in a 7 year relationship with a Tunisian who I thought was my world .I gave him alot , he promised so many times to come to me in UK but always was a drama.I stuck by him after he married his Tunisian cousin had a child, but had I joined a group like this a long time ago I would have finished with him years ago . Anonymous facebook group post https://www.facebook.com/groups/1477012806553891/permalink/1481195879468917/

I want to thank this group for the support and advice they give.I was in a 7 year relationship with a Tunisian who I thought was my world .I gave him alot , he promised so many times to come to me in UK but always was a drama.I stuck by him after he married his Tunisian cousin had a child, but had I joined a group like this a long time ago I would have finished with him years ago .

Anonymous facebook group post

https://www.facebook.com/groups/1477012806553891/permalink/1481195879468917/
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Tunisian Love RatTunisian love rats
Tunisia Love Rats Group
Tunisia Love Rats GroupBeginner
Asked: April 28, 2024

Putting your whole heart into a relationship, your soul, every moment you have is something happens to most of us at least once in our lives. From that first look, to that first kiss, then the ups-and-downs that follow afterwards. And then, after years of respect and companionship, you are like one person. You fit each other like a glove. Until when you least expect it the ultimate betrayal, and the biggest shock of your life occurs. The person you loved more than anyone else in the world, maybe even the father of your children, is a love rat. Anonymous Facebook group post https://www.facebook.com/groups/1477012806553891/permalink/1477059803215858/

Putting your whole heart into a relationship, your soul, every moment you have is something happens to most of us at least once in our lives.
From that first look, to that first kiss, then the ups-and-downs that follow afterwards. And then, after years of respect and companionship, you are like one person. You fit each other like a glove. Until when you least expect it the ultimate betrayal, and the biggest shock of your life occurs.
The person you loved more than anyone else in the world, maybe even the father of your children, is a love rat.
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Great_Minds
Great_MindsAdmin
Asked: January 9, 2024

Reporting a scam to your bank is crucial to protect your finances. Here are steps you can take: Contact Your Bank Immediately: Call your bank’s customer service as soon as you suspect a scam. The sooner you report it, the better chance you have of preventing further damage. Provide Details: Be prepared to provide specific details about the scam, such as the date, amount, and any relevant transaction information. The more information you can provide, the easier it will be for the bank to investigate. Follow Bank Procedures: Your bank will likely have specific procedures for reporting fraud. Follow their instructions carefully, and provide any documentation they request. Close Compromised Accounts: If the scam involves a compromised account, consider closing it to prevent further unauthorized transactions. Change Passwords: Change your online banking passwords and any other passwords associated with your financial accounts to enhance security. File a Police Report: In some cases, banks may ask you to file a police report. This ...Read more

Reporting a scam to your bank is crucial to protect your finances. Here are steps you can take:

  1. Contact Your Bank Immediately:
    • Call your bank’s customer service as soon as you suspect a scam. The sooner you report it, the better chance you have of preventing further damage.
  2. Provide Details:
    • Be prepared to provide specific details about the scam, such as the date, amount, and any relevant transaction information. The more information you can provide, the easier it will be for the bank to investigate.
  3. Follow Bank Procedures:
    • Your bank will likely have specific procedures for reporting fraud. Follow their instructions carefully, and provide any documentation they request.
  4. Close Compromised Accounts:
    • If the scam involves a compromised account, consider closing it to prevent further unauthorized transactions.
  5. Change Passwords:
    • Change your online banking passwords and any other passwords associated with your financial accounts to enhance security.
  6. File a Police Report:
    • In some cases, banks may ask you to file a police report. This is especially important if you’ve been a victim of identity theft.
  7. Check Other Accounts:
    • If you suspect your personal information is compromised, check other financial accounts for any suspicious activity.
  8. Monitor Your Accounts:
    • Keep a close eye on your bank statements, credit reports, and any other financial accounts. Report any additional suspicious activity promptly.
  9. Consider Fraud Alerts:
    • Discuss with your bank the option of placing fraud alerts on your accounts to provide an extra layer of protection.
  10. Educate Yourself:
    • Learn about common scams and how to recognize them to avoid falling victim in the future. Stay informed about the latest scam trends.

Remember, reporting a scam promptly is crucial, and working closely with your bank will increase the likelihood of resolving the issue and recovering any losses.

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  1. Anna D
    Anna D
    Added an answer on January 9, 2022 at 4:20 pm

    These guys are getting rich over good hearted women

    These guys are getting rich over good hearted women

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