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Holiday Love Rats Forum- Love Stories or Red Flags? Latest Questions

Reporting a scam to your bank is crucial to protect your finances. Here are steps you can take: Contact Your Bank Immediately: Call your bank’s customer service as soon as you suspect a scam. The sooner you report it, the better chance you have of preventing further damage. Provide Details: Be prepared to provide specific details about the scam, such as the date, amount, and any relevant transaction information. The more information you can provide, the easier it will be for the bank to investigate. Follow Bank Procedures: Your bank will likely have specific procedures for reporting fraud. Follow their instructions carefully, and provide any documentation they request. Close Compromised Accounts: If the scam involves a compromised account, consider closing it to prevent further unauthorized transactions. Change Passwords: Change your online banking passwords and any other passwords associated with your financial accounts to enhance security. File a Police Report: In some cases, banks may ask you to file a police report. This ...Read more

Reporting a scam to your bank is crucial to protect your finances. Here are steps you can take:

  1. Contact Your Bank Immediately:
    • Call your bank’s customer service as soon as you suspect a scam. The sooner you report it, the better chance you have of preventing further damage.
  2. Provide Details:
    • Be prepared to provide specific details about the scam, such as the date, amount, and any relevant transaction information. The more information you can provide, the easier it will be for the bank to investigate.
  3. Follow Bank Procedures:
    • Your bank will likely have specific procedures for reporting fraud. Follow their instructions carefully, and provide any documentation they request.
  4. Close Compromised Accounts:
    • If the scam involves a compromised account, consider closing it to prevent further unauthorized transactions.
  5. Change Passwords:
    • Change your online banking passwords and any other passwords associated with your financial accounts to enhance security.
  6. File a Police Report:
    • In some cases, banks may ask you to file a police report. This is especially important if you’ve been a victim of identity theft.
  7. Check Other Accounts:
    • If you suspect your personal information is compromised, check other financial accounts for any suspicious activity.
  8. Monitor Your Accounts:
    • Keep a close eye on your bank statements, credit reports, and any other financial accounts. Report any additional suspicious activity promptly.
  9. Consider Fraud Alerts:
    • Discuss with your bank the option of placing fraud alerts on your accounts to provide an extra layer of protection.
  10. Educate Yourself:
    • Learn about common scams and how to recognize them to avoid falling victim in the future. Stay informed about the latest scam trends.

Remember, reporting a scam promptly is crucial, and working closely with your bank will increase the likelihood of resolving the issue and recovering any losses.

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  1. These guys are getting rich over good hearted women

    These guys are getting rich over good hearted women

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Navigating the world of relationships can be both exciting and challenging. Unfortunately, not everyone has the best intentions, and it’s crucial to be aware of potential red flags, especially when it comes to identifying a “Love Rat.” 🚩 What’s a Love Rat? A Love Rat is someone who engages in deceptive behavior within relationships, often for personal gain or satisfaction. Spotting these red flags early can save you from heartache and disappointment. Here are some indicators to watch out for: 1. Fast-Paced Romance: Love Rats tend to rush relationships, pushing for quick commitments and declarations of love. Be cautious if things escalate faster than feels natural. 2. Inconsistencies in Stories: Keep an eye out for conflicting stories or details that don’t add up. Love Rats may weave tales that sound good but lack consistency. 3. Elusive About Personal Information: If your partner avoids sharing personal details or is vague about their life, career, or ...Read more

Navigating the world of relationships can be both exciting and challenging. Unfortunately, not everyone has the best intentions, and it’s crucial to be aware of potential red flags, especially when it comes to identifying a “Love Rat.” 🚩

What’s a Love Rat? A Love Rat is someone who engages in deceptive behavior within relationships, often for personal gain or satisfaction. Spotting these red flags early can save you from heartache and disappointment. Here are some indicators to watch out for:

1. Fast-Paced Romance: Love Rats tend to rush relationships, pushing for quick commitments and declarations of love. Be cautious if things escalate faster than feels natural.

2. Inconsistencies in Stories: Keep an eye out for conflicting stories or details that don’t add up. Love Rats may weave tales that sound good but lack consistency.

3. Elusive About Personal Information: If your partner avoids sharing personal details or is vague about their life, career, or background, it could be a sign they’re hiding something.

4. Financial Requests: Be wary if your partner starts asking for money or financial assistance. Love Rats often use financial manipulation to exploit their partners.

5. Excessive Charm: While charm is lovely, an overly charming person may have ulterior motives. Love Rats excel in creating a charming facade to manipulate emotions.

6. Isolation Attempts: Love Rats may try to isolate you from friends and family, making it easier for them to control the narrative.

7. Unreliable Communication: If your partner frequently goes off the grid or is hard to reach, it’s essential to question their commitment.

8. Unwillingness to Commit: Love Rats might avoid making concrete plans for the future or shy away from committing to a long-term relationship.

9. Trust Your Instincts: Above all, trust your instincts. If something doesn’t feel right, it probably isn’t. Take the time to evaluate your feelings and the dynamics of your relationship.

Remember, healthy relationships are built on trust, communication, and mutual respect. If you ever find yourself questioning the authenticity of a relationship, don’t hesitate to seek advice from friends or family. Our community is here to support you!

Have you encountered any red flags that made you question a relationship? Share your experiences and insights with us to help others navigate the complex world of love and relationships. 💔🚨

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  1. Look out for inconsistencies in their stories, reluctance to share personal information, and quick declarations of love

    Look out for inconsistencies in their stories, reluctance to share personal information, and quick declarations of love

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I’m not dating anyone but there’s a man who has lived in my country for just under a year and he’s 18 years younger than me. Is it an almost certainty that he would be using me, if he wanted to date me? Anonymous facebook group post https://www.facebook.com/groups/1477012806553891/permalink/1481588422762996/

I’m not dating anyone but there’s a man who has lived in my country for just under a year and he’s 18 years younger than me. Is it an almost certainty that he would be using me, if he wanted to date me?

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I want to thank this group for the support and advice they give.I was in a 7 year relationship with a Tunisian who I thought was my world .I gave him alot , he promised so many times to come to me in UK but always was a drama.I stuck by him after he married his Tunisian cousin had a child, but had I joined a group like this a long time ago I would have finished with him years ago . Anonymous facebook group post https://www.facebook.com/groups/1477012806553891/permalink/1481195879468917/

I want to thank this group for the support and advice they give.I was in a 7 year relationship with a Tunisian who I thought was my world .I gave him alot , he promised so many times to come to me in UK but always was a drama.I stuck by him after he married his Tunisian cousin had a child, but had I joined a group like this a long time ago I would have finished with him years ago .

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Trouble is we meet them ,they know exactly how to woo you , doesnt matter how old or whether your fat or thin, ugly or beautiful if they think you have money they will pursue for a long long time ,sometimes years , then you find out they have a Tunisian wife and children ,and bang it breaks your heart , never again will I trust a Tunisian. https://www.facebook.com/groups/1477012806553891/permalink/1479183749670130/

Trouble is we meet them ,they know exactly how to woo you , doesnt matter how old or whether your fat or thin, ugly or beautiful if they think you have money they will pursue for a long long time ,sometimes years , then you find out they have a Tunisian wife and children ,and bang it breaks your heart , never again will I trust a Tunisian.

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Good day, Ladies! Soon will be new season and rats will again approach their victims in hotels. Looking if someone has previously experience to alarm management of hotels to stop your rat working there. Or maybe better to write to Tunisia Tourism authorities? Any advice and thorough welcome. Thank you! Anonymous Facebook group post https://www.facebook.com/groups/1477012806553891/permalink/1478120239776481/

Good day, Ladies!
Soon will be new season and rats will again approach their victims in hotels. Looking if someone has previously experience to alarm management of hotels to stop your rat working there. Or maybe better to write to Tunisia Tourism authorities?
Any advice and thorough welcome. Thank you!
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Putting your whole heart into a relationship, your soul, every moment you have is something happens to most of us at least once in our lives. From that first look, to that first kiss, then the ups-and-downs that follow afterwards. And then, after years of respect and companionship, you are like one person. You fit each other like a glove. Until when you least expect it the ultimate betrayal, and the biggest shock of your life occurs. The person you loved more than anyone else in the world, maybe even the father of your children, is a love rat. Anonymous Facebook group post https://www.facebook.com/groups/1477012806553891/permalink/1477059803215858/

Putting your whole heart into a relationship, your soul, every moment you have is something happens to most of us at least once in our lives.
From that first look, to that first kiss, then the ups-and-downs that follow afterwards. And then, after years of respect and companionship, you are like one person. You fit each other like a glove. Until when you least expect it the ultimate betrayal, and the biggest shock of your life occurs.
The person you loved more than anyone else in the world, maybe even the father of your children, is a love rat.
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It’s not uncommon for individuals to struggle with letting go of a relationship, especially when it involves a love rat. There are several psychological and emotional factors that contribute to this difficulty. Firstly, love rats often employ manipulative tactics that create a strong emotional bond. They may have presented themselves as caring and loving, making it challenging for you to accept the betrayal and move on. Additionally, the investment of time, emotions, and energy in the relationship can make it harder to detach. You may be holding onto the initial positive experiences and hoping for a return to that idealized version of the relationship. Feelings of embarrassment, shame, or self-blame can also contribute to the struggle in forgetting a love rat. Accepting that you were deceived can be emotionally taxing, and it may take time to process these emotions. To help you move forward, consider seeking support from friends, family, or a therapist. Talking ...Read more

It’s not uncommon for individuals to struggle with letting go of a relationship, especially when it involves a love rat. There are several psychological and emotional factors that contribute to this difficulty.

Firstly, love rats often employ manipulative tactics that create a strong emotional bond. They may have presented themselves as caring and loving, making it challenging for you to accept the betrayal and move on.

Additionally, the investment of time, emotions, and energy in the relationship can make it harder to detach. You may be holding onto the initial positive experiences and hoping for a return to that idealized version of the relationship.

Feelings of embarrassment, shame, or self-blame can also contribute to the struggle in forgetting a love rat. Accepting that you were deceived can be emotionally taxing, and it may take time to process these emotions.

To help you move forward, consider seeking support from friends, family, or a therapist. Talking about your feelings can provide valuable perspectives and assistance in navigating the healing process. Establishing new routines, focusing on self-care, and engaging in activities you enjoy can aid in the recovery journey.

Remember, healing from a deceptive relationship takes time, and it’s okay to seek professional help if needed. Be patient with yourself, and gradually, you’ll find the strength to let go and move on to healthier relationships.

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Wheres the post about the wannabe Pablo Escobar and his mule gone? Its rather annoying when people post and then delete, especially when members have taken time out of their day to answer! Anonymous facebook group post https://www.facebook.com/groups/1477012806553891/permalink/1495748998013605/

Wheres the post about the wannabe Pablo Escobar and his mule gone?
Its rather annoying when people post and then delete, especially when members have taken time out of their day to answer!
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At first…i’m sorry for my ENGLISH . I decided to describe my story with Tunisian love as a warning… I would like to point out right away… not everyone has the same experience, because even if a guy is serious and thinks seriously, the story will end with a happy life until death  The second thing is how marriage is treated in Tunisia – a contract, a contract for living together, there is no question of love  But you can’t be sure what the Tunisian thinks in 10 years  Read more

At first…i’m sorry for my ENGLISH . I decided to describe my story with Tunisian love as a warning… I would like to point out right away… not everyone has the same experience, because even if a guy is serious and thinks seriously, the story will end with a happy life until death 😉 The second thing is how marriage is treated in Tunisia – a contract, a contract for living together, there is no question of love 😉
But you can’t be sure what the Tunisian thinks in 10 years 😉
As is often the case with a Tunisian’s great love for a Polish woman, he and his family were not bothered by the age difference – he was 13 years younger – I was enchanted by the family and his assurances that he loved me and would always be with me, so I agreed to get married after 3 years of relationship.
Then a lot of paperwork and visa arrangements. Surprisingly, I got the visa the first time. Tears of happiness for him and his family and his arrival to Poland. Super nice, obliging, helpful, cleans, cooks, waits for 1st residence card. I still take care of the house and pay the bills because I don’t work. Finally, the desired residence card, first job, first salary and what?… It turns out that he has no intention of contributing to the bills because I earn more and besides, other Tunisians live here and do not pay either because their wives support them. Additionally, my sister calls me with a complaint and says how can I ask him for money when he has less than me… He spent everything on himself, the car, clothes, shoes.
He was already working with a residence card, always tired, helping only occasionally, having sex less and less often and lying in bed with his phone in his hand all the time. Through my own means, I found out that he was involved in a Polish-Tunisian group and met a woman there. After an argument about him not helping me and just lying there with his phone, and that I had the right to be tired too, he packed his things and moved out. Contact with a woman from the group resulted in an overnight stay in a hotel in Warsaw. He wasn’t tired for that 😂
I forgave him… because the first residence card expired in a month, I felt sorry for him because he came for me and I would leave him without any papers. Another card and more lies… writing to women that he lives alone and works, asking for meetings. When I shouted it in his face that this is not the way to do it, this is not Tunisia, that wives have nothing to say when a man has mistresses, he said that I was limiting him, that I wanted to subordinate him, that he was younger and that’s not why he sacrificed himself youth for me to command him. He came here to work and live well. That the consul gave him the visa, not me 😂 That everyone knows what this marriage is for, no one in Tunisia takes an older wife, only a young one, and he sacrificed his youth so that he could live happily and do what he wants, and I have to agree to it because I have a young one husband . That if I loved him, I would support him and help him start a company because he doesn’t want to work for someone all his life. It’s a shame in Tunisia when you work for someone else and not on your own. And if I want to divorce him and block his next residence card, he will say that I married him only for sex.
That time has come… the application for a third residence card has been sent by him and the divorce is pending…
I don’t know what he’s thinking… he doesn’t live with me, but he counts on the card, he writes messages saying that he doesn’t love me, that he can have anyone because many women write to him. That he will find a woman who respects him and will be happy because with me there are only problems.
That’s all the Tunisian love 😂 and for a long time because he could have escaped after the first card 😂
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