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Holiday Love Rats Forum- Love Stories or Red Flags? Latest Questions

Dear Members We’re thrilled to have you join our community of like-minded individuals. This forum is a place where diverse perspectives, shared experiences, and meaningful connections come together. Whether you’re here to seek advice, share your story, or simply connect with others who understand, you’re in the right place. Our strength lies in the collective support we provide one another. Feel free to explore the various discussions, share your thoughts, and contribute to the vibrant tapestry of our community. Each member brings a unique voice, making this space richer and more valuable. Thank you for being a part of our forum family. Your presence enhances the warmth and wisdom of this community. Together, let’s create a space where everyone feels heard, supported, and valued. Good to know Review our updated Community Guidelines Make sure to read the Terms and conditions, and the Privacy Policy pages Please do not post any personal information on ...Read more

Dear Members

We’re thrilled to have you join our community of like-minded individuals. This forum is a place where diverse perspectives, shared experiences, and meaningful connections come together. Whether you’re here to seek advice, share your story, or simply connect with others who understand, you’re in the right place.

Our strength lies in the collective support we provide one another. Feel free to explore the various discussions, share your thoughts, and contribute to the vibrant tapestry of our community. Each member brings a unique voice, making this space richer and more valuable.

Thank you for being a part of our forum family. Your presence enhances the warmth and wisdom of this community. Together, let’s create a space where everyone feels heard, supported, and valued.

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Hey there, fellow Holiday Love Rats members! 👋 Welcome to our vibrant space! We believe every voice counts, and we’re thrilled to get to know you better. Feel free to use this thread to introduce yourself to the community. Whether you’re a seasoned member or a newcomer, share a bit about who you are, your interests, and what brought you here. To get started, here are a few prompts you can use: Nickname: What should we call you? Location: Where are you from? Interests/Hobbies: What do you love to do in your free time? Why You Joined: What motivated you to be part of our community? Fun Fact: Share something interesting about yourself! Remember, this is a friendly space, so let’s keep the introductions warm and welcoming. We can’t wait to hear your stories! 🌟

Hey there, fellow Holiday Love Rats members!

👋 Welcome to our vibrant space! We believe every voice counts, and we’re thrilled to get to know you better. Feel free to use this thread to introduce yourself to the community. Whether you’re a seasoned member or a newcomer, share a bit about who you are, your interests, and what brought you here.

To get started, here are a few prompts you can use:

  1. Nickname: What should we call you?
  2. Location: Where are you from?
  3. Interests/Hobbies: What do you love to do in your free time?
  4. Why You Joined: What motivated you to be part of our community?
  5. Fun Fact: Share something interesting about yourself!

Remember, this is a friendly space, so let’s keep the introductions warm and welcoming. We can’t wait to hear your stories! 🌟

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Hey everyone, I wanted to share my experience and shed light on a concerning phenomenon that some may be familiar with – Tunisian love rats. Over the past year, I’ve been in contact with someone from Tunisia, and our interactions have been quite eventful. We’ve encountered our fair share of disagreements, particularly when it comes to financial matters. It’s disheartening that our connection sometimes falters due to such issues. One incident that stands out is when he requested money, and I, being upfront about my own financial struggles, couldn’t provide assistance. This led to a temporary rift in our communication. What struck me today was his admission that he had been chatting with a girl in Europe who promptly sent him money. It left me feeling upset, especially when he expressed a desire for a partner who could offer financial support. Interestingly, he seemed to forget the 120 dinars I sent him last ...Read more

Hey everyone,

I wanted to share my experience and shed light on a concerning phenomenon that some may be familiar with – Tunisian love rats. Over the past year, I’ve been in contact with someone from Tunisia, and our interactions have been quite eventful.

We’ve encountered our fair share of disagreements, particularly when it comes to financial matters. It’s disheartening that our connection sometimes falters due to such issues. One incident that stands out is when he requested money, and I, being upfront about my own financial struggles, couldn’t provide assistance. This led to a temporary rift in our communication.

What struck me today was his admission that he had been chatting with a girl in Europe who promptly sent him money. It left me feeling upset, especially when he expressed a desire for a partner who could offer financial support. Interestingly, he seemed to forget the 120 dinars I sent him last year, insisting it wasn’t much, despite being a significant contribution from my side at the time.

This experience has made me more aware of the dynamics involved in relationships with individuals from certain regions. I’d love to hear your thoughts and experiences on this matter.

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  1. Sorry, this is a private answer visible to admins and post author only.

I’ve been in communication with this Tunisian man for about 1.5 years, and we’ve developed a close connection resembling that of a couple. Throughout this period, we’ve had a few disagreements, leading to temporary silences as we navigated feelings of hurt. One instance involved a request for financial assistance, to which I explained my own financial struggles. Following this, there were intermittent periods of not talking, often stemming from various reasons. During our disagreements, he would make me feel guilty and utter disrespectful remarks. Today, he disclosed that he had recently been chatting with a girl in Europe who promptly sent him money. He expressed a desire for a girl who could do the same, emphasizing that I haven’t been as supportive financially. This revelation saddened me, considering that I had sent him 120 dinars last year, though he seemed to overlook this contribution, stating it wasn’t much, despite being all ...Read more

I’ve been in communication with this Tunisian man for about 1.5 years, and we’ve developed a close connection resembling that of a couple. Throughout this period, we’ve had a few disagreements, leading to temporary silences as we navigated feelings of hurt. One instance involved a request for financial assistance, to which I explained my own financial struggles. Following this, there were intermittent periods of not talking, often stemming from various reasons.

During our disagreements, he would make me feel guilty and utter disrespectful remarks. Today, he disclosed that he had recently been chatting with a girl in Europe who promptly sent him money. He expressed a desire for a girl who could do the same, emphasizing that I haven’t been as supportive financially. This revelation saddened me, considering that I had sent him 120 dinars last year, though he seemed to overlook this contribution, stating it wasn’t much, despite being all I could afford at the time.

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  1. I met a tunisian man and married him I brought him to uk and after 2 years he kept drinking too much arguing to much on me , then he went and cheated on me , he is now here with me and refuses to move out saying he loves me , fact is If u love someone why would u cheat on them , listen up girls don'Read more

    I met a tunisian man and married him I brought him to uk and after 2 years he kept drinking too much arguing to much on me , then he went and cheated on me , he is now here with me and refuses to move out saying he loves me , fact is If u love someone why would u cheat on them , listen up girls don’t waste u time and effort they are no good and I’m telling u this from the heart , your prob thinking well he is still living with me , yes he is as he needs use me as his indefinite leave to remain gets granted in November of course he will stay until then , me I’m in proceeds of moving out when he is at work , these men can lie like no one u ever met believe me and they can he sweet but they have one goal in life uk citizenship .

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People may choose to stay in relationships that they constantly complain about for various reasons, including: Familiarity and Comfort: The fear of the unknown or the comfort of the familiar might lead individuals to stay in relationships, even if they are not entirely satisfied. Change can be daunting, and some may prefer the security of the known, even if it’s not ideal. Investment in the Relationship: People may have invested a significant amount of time, effort, or resources into the relationship. This investment, whether emotional or material, can create a sense of obligation to try and make the relationship work. Fear of Being Alone: The fear of loneliness or the uncertainty of being single can be powerful motivators. Some individuals might stay in a relationship, even an unsatisfactory one, to avoid the perceived challenges of being alone. Hope for Improvement: Despite complaints, individuals may hold onto the hope that the relationship will improve over ...Read more

People may choose to stay in relationships that they constantly complain about for various reasons, including:

  1. Familiarity and Comfort: The fear of the unknown or the comfort of the familiar might lead individuals to stay in relationships, even if they are not entirely satisfied. Change can be daunting, and some may prefer the security of the known, even if it’s not ideal.
  2. Investment in the Relationship: People may have invested a significant amount of time, effort, or resources into the relationship. This investment, whether emotional or material, can create a sense of obligation to try and make the relationship work.
  3. Fear of Being Alone: The fear of loneliness or the uncertainty of being single can be powerful motivators. Some individuals might stay in a relationship, even an unsatisfactory one, to avoid the perceived challenges of being alone.
  4. Hope for Improvement: Despite complaints, individuals may hold onto the hope that the relationship will improve over time. They might believe that with effort or changes, the issues causing complaints can be resolved.
  5. Social or Cultural Expectations: Societal or cultural norms, family expectations, or religious beliefs can influence individuals to stay in relationships. The pressure to conform to these external expectations may override personal dissatisfaction.
  6. Financial Dependence: Economic factors, such as financial dependence on a partner, can make it difficult for someone to leave a relationship. The perceived inability to support themselves can be a significant barrier to ending a problematic relationship.
  7. Children and Family Ties: For those with children, the desire to maintain a stable family environment or the fear of disrupting their children’s lives can be a powerful reason to stay in a relationship. Family ties, in general, can create a sense of obligation.

It’s essential to recognize that each person’s situation is unique, and the decision to stay in a challenging relationship is influenced by a complex interplay of emotional, social, and practical factors.

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  1. Relationship is a need. When you are at a primary stage of relationship, you do everything for making him or her happy. If you are able to do that, you feel immense pleasure, specifically if your partner acknowledges it. You feel that the person you idolise as symbol of love is appreciating you. PsyRead more

    Relationship is a need. When you are at a primary stage of relationship, you do everything for making him or her happy. If you are able to do that, you feel immense pleasure, specifically if your partner acknowledges it. You feel that the person you idolise as symbol of love is appreciating you. Psychologicaly your mind associates that person with your sense of happiness, inner peace, desires etc. You feel to have a person to depend on…a sort of codependency develops.

    But over a period of time, this becomes usual and you are no more noticed or appreciated with equal enthusiasm. So the perception about your partner changes. Now you start feeling a lack in your inner feelings and you find your partner responsible for it. Accordingly the talks, subjects, agendas, volume pitch…everything changes.

    So the people who says that relationships are bad, are standing at that stage… But the codependency is not

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At first…i’m sorry for my ENGLISH . I decided to describe my story with Tunisian love as a warning… I would like to point out right away… not everyone has the same experience, because even if a guy is serious and thinks seriously, the story will end with a happy life until death  The second thing is how marriage is treated in Tunisia – a contract, a contract for living together, there is no question of love  But you can’t be sure what the Tunisian thinks in 10 years  Read more

At first…i’m sorry for my ENGLISH . I decided to describe my story with Tunisian love as a warning… I would like to point out right away… not everyone has the same experience, because even if a guy is serious and thinks seriously, the story will end with a happy life until death 😉 The second thing is how marriage is treated in Tunisia – a contract, a contract for living together, there is no question of love 😉
But you can’t be sure what the Tunisian thinks in 10 years 😉
As is often the case with a Tunisian’s great love for a Polish woman, he and his family were not bothered by the age difference – he was 13 years younger – I was enchanted by the family and his assurances that he loved me and would always be with me, so I agreed to get married after 3 years of relationship.
Then a lot of paperwork and visa arrangements. Surprisingly, I got the visa the first time. Tears of happiness for him and his family and his arrival to Poland. Super nice, obliging, helpful, cleans, cooks, waits for 1st residence card. I still take care of the house and pay the bills because I don’t work. Finally, the desired residence card, first job, first salary and what?… It turns out that he has no intention of contributing to the bills because I earn more and besides, other Tunisians live here and do not pay either because their wives support them. Additionally, my sister calls me with a complaint and says how can I ask him for money when he has less than me… He spent everything on himself, the car, clothes, shoes.
He was already working with a residence card, always tired, helping only occasionally, having sex less and less often and lying in bed with his phone in his hand all the time. Through my own means, I found out that he was involved in a Polish-Tunisian group and met a woman there. After an argument about him not helping me and just lying there with his phone, and that I had the right to be tired too, he packed his things and moved out. Contact with a woman from the group resulted in an overnight stay in a hotel in Warsaw. He wasn’t tired for that 😂
I forgave him… because the first residence card expired in a month, I felt sorry for him because he came for me and I would leave him without any papers. Another card and more lies… writing to women that he lives alone and works, asking for meetings. When I shouted it in his face that this is not the way to do it, this is not Tunisia, that wives have nothing to say when a man has mistresses, he said that I was limiting him, that I wanted to subordinate him, that he was younger and that’s not why he sacrificed himself youth for me to command him. He came here to work and live well. That the consul gave him the visa, not me 😂 That everyone knows what this marriage is for, no one in Tunisia takes an older wife, only a young one, and he sacrificed his youth so that he could live happily and do what he wants, and I have to agree to it because I have a young one husband . That if I loved him, I would support him and help him start a company because he doesn’t want to work for someone all his life. It’s a shame in Tunisia when you work for someone else and not on your own. And if I want to divorce him and block his next residence card, he will say that I married him only for sex.
That time has come… the application for a third residence card has been sent by him and the divorce is pending…
I don’t know what he’s thinking… he doesn’t live with me, but he counts on the card, he writes messages saying that he doesn’t love me, that he can have anyone because many women write to him. That he will find a woman who respects him and will be happy because with me there are only problems.
That’s all the Tunisian love 😂 and for a long time because he could have escaped after the first card 😂
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Love rats can have a devastating effect on women’s financial well-being. These deceitful individuals often manipulate emotions, leading victims to invest significant time, trust, and even money in the relationship. As the scam unfolds, victims may find themselves facing financial losses, often struggling to recover from the emotional and monetary toll inflicted by love rats. It’s crucial to stay vigilant and prioritize one’s financial security when navigating relationships. Read more

Love rats can have a devastating effect on women’s financial well-being. These deceitful individuals often manipulate emotions, leading victims to invest significant time, trust, and even money in the relationship. As the scam unfolds, victims may find themselves facing financial losses, often struggling to recover from the emotional and monetary toll inflicted by love rats. It’s crucial to stay vigilant and prioritize one’s financial security when navigating relationships.

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  1. These manipulative individuals often exploit emotions to gain financial benefits. Victims may find themselves investing time, trust, and money in the relationship, only to suffer substantial financial losses when the deceit is revealed. Recovering from such scams can be challenging, emphasizing theRead more

    These manipulative individuals often exploit emotions to gain financial benefits. Victims may find themselves investing time, trust, and money in the relationship, only to suffer substantial financial losses when the deceit is revealed. Recovering from such scams can be challenging, emphasizing the importance of financial awareness and caution in relationships to protect against these harmful effects.

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The introduction of the Scientific Method and its use to find, measure and to otherwise evaluate “evidence” in order to draw conclusions and/or to suggest prescriptive pathways for advancing human endeavors. What is the biggest advancement to human progress?

The introduction of the Scientific Method and its use to find, measure and to otherwise evaluate “evidence” in order to draw conclusions and/or to suggest prescriptive pathways for advancing human endeavors.

What is the biggest advancement to human progress?

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Hello everyone, I hope this message finds you well. I’m new to the forum, and I wanted to share a bit about my experience, hoping it may help others avoid similar pitfalls. Uunfortunately, I fell victim to a Turkish love rat’s deceitful schemes. It all started innocently enough—a chance online encounter that blossomed into what I believed was a genuine connection. Little did I know, the person behind the charming facade had ulterior motives. As the relationship progressed, I found myself entangled in a web of lies and manipulation. This person exploited my trust and emotions for personal gain, leaving me emotionally and financially devastated. It’s a painful lesson, but one that has taught me to be more cautious and discerning in matters of the heart. I’m here to share my story, connect with others who may have experienced similar situations, and provide support to those navigating the challenging aftermath ...Read more

Hello everyone, I hope this message finds you well. I’m new to the forum, and I wanted to share a bit about my experience, hoping it may help others avoid similar pitfalls. Uunfortunately, I fell victim to a Turkish love rat’s deceitful schemes. It all started innocently enough—a chance online encounter that blossomed into what I believed was a genuine connection. Little did I know, the person behind the charming facade had ulterior motives. As the relationship progressed, I found myself entangled in a web of lies and manipulation. This person exploited my trust and emotions for personal gain, leaving me emotionally and financially devastated. It’s a painful lesson, but one that has taught me to be more cautious and discerning in matters of the heart. I’m here to share my story, connect with others who may have experienced similar situations, and provide support to those navigating the challenging aftermath of falling for a love rat. Let’s stand together, share our insights, and create a community that empowers each other. Thank you for welcoming me to the forum, and I look forward to engaging in meaningful discussions.

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Hello dear ones. I have been in a relationship with Houssem Bedoui for 5 months now. We video chatted every day and I got to know his family in Tunisia and his uncle in Germany. i visited him back in Feb His parents were at our apartment for dinner and I met his friends. It was perfect. A week after I left, he suddenly didn’t want me to come visit him in the summer. And three or 4 days later he told me that his family and friends think I’m too old and they’re forcing him to end our relationship. https://www.facebook.com/groups/1477012806553891/permalink/1485266925728479/ Read more

Hello dear ones.
I have been in a relationship with Houssem Bedoui for 5 months now. We video chatted every day and I got to know his family in Tunisia and his uncle in Germany. i visited him back in Feb His parents were at our apartment for dinner and I met his friends. It was perfect. A week after I left, he suddenly didn’t want me to come visit him in the summer. And three or 4 days later he told me that his family and friends think I’m too old and they’re forcing him to end our relationship.
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