Hi everyone . I see unpleasant messages in posts! One condemns the relationship with age! Writing: Do you really think that a young Tunisian man wants you when you can be his mother or grandmother!!!! So I ask, is it just an allegation because the man is from Tunisia? Because if it is in your home country, it does not matter that there are 20 to 30 years between them!!
I also like to know, if the rats are acted like a man and pulled himself together and did what he had to do to you, is still a rat!? I took him in contact others, I think, because he gets bored or trying to get attention and money from others. So if he has changed his behavior patterns, gam is still a rat!?
Do we accuse them of being rats, because of this and also for the money!!?
They’re locked in there, and they can’t get anywhere. Sometimes i feel, I am not good enough, because he really is a charming young man and I don’t look my age, and even my girl friends are 20 to 25 years younger than me and my last boyfriend from my country was 25 years younger than me. This Tunisian man, I have lived with him when I was there and I know all his friends there and in the years I have known him, we have only had the problem that he has previously sent requests to an incredible number of women and they are now all deleted.
But we have 24 years between us, so is he a rat, because of the age different!!?
I mean they all, want to get to Europe, I know for sure and talk about being patient.
We got no, to getting merried and have to apply again later, so I found out he send request to other ladys, and he was drunk this night and he told his mother had he done this and she said no matter what I’m always welcome and that God would not forgive him. In Tunisia, it is not allowed, with multiple wives and not like many other countries, to only be married in Islam, a civil wedding is required and a marriage certificate from one’s home country must be included and they are against the fact that they have to be married to get visas, then isn’t that what they are fighting for as well, finding a woman who will respect them and love them and come to them.
I think he became a rat, towards me, until he learned, its not okay to get drunk and use it as explanation, but I know aswell, the men in my country are all like this, even the girlfriends men.
So when are you naive?