HELMI HFAIDH (Linco)
Links in Hammamet, Mrezga and Nabuel.
I was with Helmi for 2 years. We was both 25 when we met in 2022 in Hammamet gardens he was part of the Animation team. At the beginning he was a dream, very thoughtful and caring and funny, he would wait on me hand and foot, cook for me everyday.. he was perfect to me, he was one year older than me so not a huge age difference. He has met my whole family and I have met his family. He proposed to me in November last year. But things took a turn in June 2024.. I brought him a new phone (I’m glad I did) and to my surprise discovered messages to another woman, he denied it and said it was his cousin then he said his friend was using the phone at a coffee shop.. begging me to believe him. So then when he was sleeping I went to his emails and discovered more messages and I saw her name, I searched her up on Facebook and I confronted him with her picture in his face, he was shaking, he still stuck with the story that his friend was using his phone, now pleading for me to believe him. I messaged her on facebook asking if she knew him but he took my phone from me and locked me in the apartment to meet his friend, he came home.. calling me names and saying he is going out partying.. he refused to give my phone back so I took the car keys ( car I was renting for us) he grabbed me by the front door and head butted me.. I was so shocked it made me fall back.. he then grabbed the collar of my shirt and fully punched me in the face, I ran straight to the bathroom to lock it but he Managed to push it open.. he repeatedly said I will kill you and no one will know and was continuously slapping me in the head, I cried for him to stop and he didn’t, I was cowering in the corner of the bathroom waiting for him to finish and leave. He eventually left the apartment but he still had my phone and he locked the apartment so I couldn’t leave or call for help. He came back in the early hours of the morning, abusing me and calling me names telling me that I had caused problems for his friend by texting the girl on Facebook. He told me he wanted to go for food to talk about it and I jumped at the opportunity because I needed my phone back and I wanted to be in public so I could ask him for it back, we went to the Marina and I asked him countless times to give my phone and that I needed to contact my family as they would be worried, he told me no one is worried about you. He eventually gave me my phone and I discovered the woman replied to my message saying she was getting married to him in August, he replied to her pretending to be me. i felt so numb I just up and left the restaurant. Once he found me he was abusing me again, we got into the car and he said ‘wait until we get home’ implying that he was going to hurt me again. During the car ride he was mocking my cries when he was hitting me the previous night. I was alone in a foreign country,I was so scared. He continued to hit me once I got out the car and I screamed my loudest for anyone to help but no one did.
I’m back in my country now, but he is still trying to torture me, messaging my family and friends etc I discovered when I was in Tunisia last Oct – Dec the other woman flew out to see him twice when I was in his country to see him, his aunties who I have all met numerous times even went wedding dress shopping with the other women, They both met in August of last year on this day, She is older than him and she has children.. so I guess it’s because she has stability. I can’t believe someone who was so gentle with me and acted like he loved me so much could actually be such a horrible evil person. I didn’t want to write this post but I feel like every woman needs to know what type of person he really is.
I’m in contact with the other woman, and he is begging her back and trying to down play mine and his relationship, which is extremely hurtful but I am glad that he has shown his true colors.
When I first started dating him I was on all of these love rat sites and reading stories, I believed it could never happen to me. But it can.
British embassy and local police was called.