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Should I expose them and leave a negative review?

Short read:

I got harassed and sexually assaulted by the pastor’s younger brother who is a police from this church. He was able to meet with me again with the help of his pastor brother.
He’s a fake ugly liar that uses people.
He thought he could easily have sex with me, get a visa through marriage, and use me financially.

From what I experience it’s just like this documentary called the Holiday Love Rats.

I wouldn’t be surprised if the pastor stole money from the church and takes advantage of people too.

I thought I would be able to come to this church again with my mom and her friends as a group but I would never again.

Long read:
I was welcomed to this church through my mom’s friend knowing the pastor here. Since her relative helps the pastor as a maid.
If you’re a foreigner or an attractive female do not trust this pastor and his younger brother who is a “police”.
I exchanged numbers with the people here at this church. Since my mom kept insisting I go here when I wasn’t interested in the first place.
She wanted me to explore this church and the city here. So the younger brother of the pastor tour me around.
First week tour was okay but strange I barely know him yet he already asked if he can hold my hand and later asking for a massage.
The younger sister told me her brother who tour me said I should sit with the female group because there are creeps in this church.
The one I should be avoiding is their brother who was only supposed to be my tour guide. But turns out he was a creep and a pervert.
After I left the church. He contacts me saying I love you and that he missed me and wanted to cuddle me. He kept harassing me to meet up again. I finally agreed after his pastor brother called me.
My intent of meeting again was only as friends. But his younger brother had other intentions. For the second week I planned and traveled around with his younger brother.
Within the second week he asked me to be his girlfriend, proposed marriage, and that my mom could do business with him. This was strange because he barely asked questions to know me.
He kept asking me to be his girlfriend but I already declined. He also asked if we would cuddle but I already told him no we are friends only.
Before leaving to go home he sexually assaulted me with my clothes on while I was laying down on my bed. Using his mouth and hands on me. Later he said don’t tell his older brother. But then he apologizes and I got to hit him. If he was sorry he wouldn’t have done it in the first place.
Basically his younger brother is a fake ugly liar that uses people. He has no respect for people boundaries. He says one thing but does another. He’s immature, a hypocrite, full of himself, not sincere, and mentally unstable.
Deep down he is insecure and doesn’t like to be alone. He just portrays a charming confident good person image but he is the opposite of that. All he cares about is his fake image since he’s shallow, superficial, and materialistic. He likes good looking people but he himself is not handsome.
He does not have much money and is financially irresponsible. He often drinks and goes to parties. He doesn’t have much to offer but sweet words. He will waste your time and money if you marry him since he cares mostly about himself. He wanted power and control over me and thought he could take advantage of me.
From what I experience it’s just like this documentary called Holiday Love Rats.
I wouldn’t be surprised if the pastor stole money from the church and took advantage of people too. Shame on the pastor for helping his brother. He thought he could easily have sex with me, marry me for a visa, and use me financially.
I thought I would be able to come here to this church again with my mom and her friends and children as a group. But never would I come here again.
Should I expose them and leave a negative review on the Church’s Facebook page and Google?
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