This man is currently living in northern Ireland
He has citizenship here .
He was married before to a uk woman that brought him here he always said they break up because she couldn’t have kids and she breakup with him as she thought it wasn’t fair on him .
Don’t know I’d that’s true or not
I was with him 18mths but was constantly in debt over him
Met him first over a year ago we met on a dating app he was a nice person I thought we met and we just clicked on first date we planned a weekend away together after us been talking for over 4 months before we left he made up a drama that his sister had been in a really big car accident over in tunisia I tryed to help him by paying for the weekend away so he could semd money over to tunisia for treatment for his sister .
The wekend went great only I paid for all food drink hotel on last day he begged me to help himto pay his bills that he had sent so much money to his family he had nothing left I’m a soft touch I gave him money .
So things continued for some months then apparently he had to pay for hospital bills his sisters medication then apparently his sister died he wanted to pay for the funeral and flight to be there then he had no money when he came back for food and essentials I helped him again .
I’m a single mum to two sons times is hard I was really struggling but he didn’t care only that I needed to help him I did as much as I could .
We agreed we get marry this year I had paid for accomadation and car rental but then I told him we need to cancel because I just couldn’t do all and I became ill so we agreed to pay to pay the extra fees to keep the property until next year
Then he had to tax his car
His car failed mot he had to buy new wheels
Then he had a second trip to pay for to tunisia apparently not his mum was ill I helped him again as much as I could he came back home I broke up with him we didn’t talk for a while I told him I couldn’t marry him this year as my son just passed his driving test and I needed to help him also I’m recovering from cancer and income not great he said he wait until he thus week said that there needed to be fees for 1000 pounds for property and car to keep our date until next year I paid it how stupid was I I believed him then he said he had argument with his dad and family that I’m not to be believed I told him you are angry person you need to calm down in which he replied don’t ever call me an angry person the is so insulting I told him that he Is not a man of his word he promised he would stay by while i get the cancer treatment that my health comes first and then chamged in his reply he answered are you saying I’m not a man now I said no but anything I said he didn’t want to know he said he had to choose between me and his family and as I won’t agree to marry this year he needs to move on I said I’m sorry I over you but I can’t financially do it this year he said only option is if I agree to what he says then we can continue with our relationship I thought about and really I did not feel love from him not supported he clearly only wanted the money for this wedding I’m sure realistically in my mind he aa using me for more money so he could pay for more holidays to his family and they would be no wedding no nothing .
I told him no he said your choice we brokeup and that’s that but I feel broken but relevant as in 1 year he had already got at least 9000 pounds from me and he was living the high life style of many trips to tunisia and me scraping for to get to money to together to survive
He has lived in Ireland over 8 years and has not got one friend only a friend from tunisia I aways thought that was strange I know I was stupid but now that I broke up with him I feel I got away and I’m free again this man is fake fake love fake everything
Promises the world and get nothing in return.