Hi everyone. I’m new to this group. I joined because I wanted to gain understanding and learn from others experience. Forgive the long text. I have been married to a Tunisian for 8 years now and we live in the UK. Last year I found out that he had been talking to another Tunisian woman living in Europe for around 3 years. Even sent her gifts. I obviously challenged both of them. My husband said it was a mistake and that he got himself into a situation he didn’t know how to get out of. He never met this girl. She was quite young and said that he had promised her he would marry her. I have loads of text conversations between them that I have not had translated but can read a bit of them. I decided to continue with the marriage and had some counselling. A year on I’m still checking his phone even though I have not found anything and believe that this has all ended. Before this happened I would have trusted him with my life. I also feel like I’m constantly comparing myself to a much younger women. Any advise would be appreciated x