Hello and good morning, I don’t know if I fell on a rat or not. We met in early July. We never went out drinking or anything. We text each other all the time. I don’t know how old he is because he never answered my question.

He’s never asked for money and he’s never written about a visa. He always says Tunisia is a beautiful country. Nor has he ever complained about his life. When we text, he asks how I’m doing, what I’ve been doing, and he’s enquiring about other stuff. I wasn’t feeling well for once and he was worried, even 3 days later he asked if I was really getting better. Why am I writing here? Because I’ve read the stories here. What signs should I look out for? He goes to the cafe every night. Does that automatically make him a rat? Or does everyone go to the cafe to have a conversation? I don’t know if I’m walking blindly into my doom or he’s the needle in the haystack. I would appreciate your opinions. Thank you!