We deeply value the experiences and stories shared within this group. Every post not only represents your journey but also resonates with others who may have gone through similar experiences.

When you share, you’re not just seeking support—you’re contributing to a collective understanding that helps everyone move on from an aweful experience with a love rat.

However, it’s disrespectful when members delete their posts after receiving the advice, support, and encouragement from the group members.

When others take the time to offer their help, they’re sharing a part of themselves, often reliving their own memories to assist you. Deleting your post can feel like a waste of the time, effort, and emotional energy others have invested in you.

We understand that some memories can be painful, and it’s not always easy to leave them out in the open. But it’s through sharing these experiences that we all learn and heal together.

We want this group to be a safe space where everyone’s contributions are valued and respected.

Because of this, we have decided on the following guidelines:

Posts Should Be Considered Carefully:

Before you post, please ensure you’re comfortable with creating your story.

If you’re uncertain or think you might want to delete it later, we kindly ask that you refrain from posting until you are sure.

Reach Out Before Deleting:

If you feel the need to delete a post after it’s already posted, please contact the admins first.

We can discuss your concerns and find a solution that respects both your feelings and the efforts of those who responded.

Consequences for Deleting Posts:

To maintain the integrity and trust within our group, we will unfortunately have to remove members who delete their posts without prior notice or a valid reason.

We don’t make this decision lightly, but it’s necessary to protect the supportive environment we’ve all worked so hard to create.

We encourage everyone to share honest and genuine stories. Your experience matters, and so does the support you receive. Let’s continue to help each other with respect and understanding.

Thank you for being a part of this group and for your cooperation.

The Admin Team.