Hia, i know most of you have had a very bad experience with a tunesian rat. I had one before meeting my husband. It was my own fault. For going into a relationship, without knowing anything about culture and always trying to help people i like. I was so madly in love! And i fel very deep. Thank god i havent lost too much but my self worth and respect.
Now i am married to a tunesian man for nearly eight years, damm it, that is quiet a long time. I am with him for 10. And we have good times and bad times. Yes they stay that way they are grown up. It is very hard for them to change their culture, expecially as a muslim. It is a lot of respect for each other needed.
So what i am trying to say.. be carefull, very carefull. There are a lot of rats that want money or papers. Hotel stuff.. em no 99% dont do it. But when you do meet someone, get to know him and the culture first. No tunesian women would give her boyfriend money to pay bills. Never mind big presents. Yes ok, bring him something, help to pay the hotelroom, but dont pay him. He has no money, but your tea or coffee outside he can pay too sometimes. Obviously no big bills or things. But this will show you a lot. A tunesian man will loose his face in front of a tunesian woman, when she constantly pays, she would be gone soon.. this is just a little example. Me too i thought, stories he is telling, cant be true. No one lives like this. Sometimes they do. But its not on us to help a whole family to live comfortabel. Its between this family. Would you do it to a man from your own country? I do have friends over here in Germany that are also married to a tunesian man. Even with an age gap, it can work. But here its also not in the culture and very often not accepted by the familys.
Be carefull and dont fall for their Charme.. talk to them and listen good.. normanlly when your head tells you something is very wrong, it is.