I’ve been seeing a Tunisian guy now for over 12mths, he doesn’t really ask for money, but he keeps asking for an iPhone because his keeps breaking, because I have told him several times I can’t help him, he has got annoyed with and stopped calling and messaging me.
I don’t know if he is seeing anyone else, but just before I go back for a holiday he will start calling me again.

My story
I met my boyfriend through Facebook he sent me a friend request after a while accepted.
First started a friendly relationship in August 2021
I went to him every 3 months I paid everything including I rented a car
He lost his job so no income
Indirectly gave he asked if I could help financially.
So I did it for 2 years.
Also supported financially to get a visa because he really wanted to come to me.
One day he asked me for money for something and I said now it’s not possible
. I didn’t hear anything enymore from him that day and I was blocked.
No longer a Tunisian for me.
I will continue to go to Tunisia, it is my second home. I have been going there for 13 years.

Bonjour,
I’ve been following you for a few months now and it’s time I tell you my story because I’ve been a victim of a bezness for almost 2years.
His name is Sofien Briki and he lives in Tunis. Mortadha is her real name and in some hotels it’s called Sagon. Two years ago he worked at Rosa Beach in Monastir and at the Hotel Ulysse in Djerba where we met.
Last year it did a lot of damage to the Sahara Beach Hotel in Monastir and this year it continues to do the same at the El Borj Hotel in Mahdia.
All this time, I gave her many gifts and obviously, I paid for everything every time we saw each other on my vacation (housing, food, outings… ).
He didn’t hesitate to ask me for money repeatedly coming up with all sorts of problems: more GSM, diseases, problems with the bank and I pass…
I got pregnant but I didn’t want to keep this child because I’m too old and risking many complications. He begged me to keep this baby by blackmailing me and telling me it would be over between us if I let him go.
He also insisted saying dozens of times that it was considered a sin for his religion to have an abortion. Haven’t heard from this kid in the following months because he was too busy going woman to woman last summer when he was working at Sahara Beach and he’d been giving me less and less updates.
So I started digging and found out 4 other women he was in a relationship with at the same time as me!!!!
He messes with ladies of any age even if they are old enough to be his grandmother and also kids since I found out a 16yr old girl he also got pregnant!!!!
After all these discoveries, I suffered serious health problems and I lost the baby.
This filth has alcohol and drug problems and doesn’t hesitate to be violent…
He’s already hit me and didn’t hesitate to insult me or belittle me when he didn’t get what he wanted from me.
I think there must be dozens of women who have suffered from his actions because he started at least 5 years ago already.
Some of his wives reported the facts to the hotels where he worked but these just did nothing and just turned a blind eye apparently…
So I would like to warn as many women as possible by tagging this character on your page. He has several phone numbers and is obviously trying to clog the tracks by creating new social media accounts or changing names (I’m putting in photos of the last known accounts as well as some photos of him because he’s a real chameleon).
This boy is willing to do anything to make ends meet, he respects nothing or anyone, he considers you as his thing and manipulates you endlessly into making you blame for all the bad things (so called) going on in his life. He’s heartless and he just wants to take advantage of you and your body and you send him money over and over again..

I want to draw everyones attention to this rattttt his love is the love of money money and marriage & visa& getting into Europe… he is a very crafty guy uses so many different facebook names is name is iheb and works in sousse he can’t keep a job And dosent want to work while he is takeing& collecting lotts of money of so many girls dont believe a word he says its all lairs& all sob storys to get what he wants out of you he is cheater and very selfish guy if nothink goes is way well he will turn and make you out the bad person he is very toxic and angry sewer rat🐀🚩🚩🚩

What are the biggest lies your rat told you ? I feel like there is so many common themes that maybe there is a rat handbook/ rat training out there somewhere! I will start of with a few ( of hundreds) mine told me :

– she’s just a friend/ stalker
– I dont drink or do drugs
– I have no money for food
– my parents are dead
– I save stray cats off the street
– Ive been arrested
– I’m homeless now
– Id never hit you

Hia, i know most of you have had a very bad experience with a tunesian rat. I had one before meeting my husband. It was my own fault. For going into a relationship, without knowing anything about culture and always trying to help people i like. I was so madly in love! And i fel very deep. Thank god i havent lost too much but my self worth and respect.
Now i am married to a tunesian man for nearly eight years, damm it, that is quiet a long time. I am with him for 10. And we have good times and bad times. Yes they stay that way they are grown up. It is very hard for them to change their culture, expecially as a muslim. It is a lot of respect for each other needed.
So what i am trying to say.. be carefull, very carefull. There are a lot of rats that want money or papers. Hotel stuff.. em no 99% dont do it. But when you do meet someone, get to know him and the culture first. No tunesian women would give her boyfriend money to pay bills. Never mind big presents. Yes ok, bring him something, help to pay the hotelroom, but dont pay him. He has no money, but your tea or coffee outside he can pay too sometimes. Obviously no big bills or things. But this will show you a lot. A tunesian man will loose his face in front of a tunesian woman, when she constantly pays, she would be gone soon.. this is just a little example. Me too i thought, stories he is telling, cant be true. No one lives like this. Sometimes they do. But its not on us to help a whole family to live comfortabel. Its between this family. Would you do it to a man from your own country? I do have friends over here in Germany that are also married to a tunesian man. Even with an age gap, it can work. But here its also not in the culture and very often not accepted by the familys.
Be carefull and dont fall for their Charme.. talk to them and listen good.. normanlly when your head tells you something is very wrong, it is.

Now I share my story – short version:

Several years back, I meet the love-rat “Bilel Ma” (aka Bilel Mallessi) handsome guy, on a dating app. A few weeks chating we switched to fb-messenger his fb-page is “Bilel Ma” he is from Kairouan/Chebika, he works at a Truck Factory, he told me he lives with his parents and has 3 brothers/3 sisters (can’t remember the exact numbers). At first he was a gentlemen, texting, video calls, exchange music, movies – the whole 9 yards. Until 3 month later: he was in the hospital (send pictures), he did not get paid because he did not work for 6 weeks, car broke down, motorbike down. Yes I send a little money, and a few gifts, until he wanted to buy a new car 🤦‍♀️ …he don’t ask directly for money, but the way he talked & send pictures of cars and cost, it was clear what he wanted 🤷🏼‍♀️ when I said NO … he ghosted me, gave me all kind of names … than accidently (?!) his sister posted pictures of his engagement party and shortly after that, his wedding 🤷🏼‍♀️ … doing a little researge I found out, the pictures were old, he been married for some years. Also he scammed other girls, two I knew from fb cause he friended us all. I ended this after 12 month, but he keeped contacting me, until I told him I will call the police … since than his fb page show he’s married, but I am sure, he has more than one and he is financing his wife with his girls money.

You want a picture, let me know, maybe there are more women who know him – I am sure he did not stop, he loves brands & luxury life …

How to move forward is a question playing on my mind I now it was the best decision to decide to breakup with him for sure he never loved me only the money and luxury I was giving him and he can forget very fast the love I gave him just it’s heartbreaking.
I’m bring strong and keeping positive he sure dosent deserve another minute of my time or even time to think of him and I’m focusing on my sons I need pretend I’m OK in front of then but inside my heart is breaking how long does it last 💔 💔 he has just drained me .
I refer to the scammer I posted yesterday living in North Ireland

Hi everyone . I see unpleasant messages in posts! One condemns the relationship with age! Writing: Do you really think that a young Tunisian man wants you when you can be his mother or grandmother!!!! So I ask, is it just an allegation because the man is from Tunisia? Because if it is in your home country, it does not matter that there are 20 to 30 years between them!!
I also like to know, if the rats are acted like a man and pulled himself together and did what he had to do to you, is still a rat!? I took him in contact others, I think, because he gets bored or trying to get attention and money from others. So if he has changed his behavior patterns, gam is still a rat!?
Do we accuse them of being rats, because of this and also for the money!!?
They’re locked in there, and they can’t get anywhere. Sometimes i feel, I am not good enough, because he really is a charming young man and I don’t look my age, and even my girl friends are 20 to 25 years younger than me and my last boyfriend from my country was 25 years younger than me. This Tunisian man, I have lived with him when I was there and I know all his friends there and in the years I have known him, we have only had the problem that he has previously sent requests to an incredible number of women and they are now all deleted.
But we have 24 years between us, so is he a rat, because of the age different!!?
I mean they all, want to get to Europe, I know for sure and talk about being patient.
We got no, to getting merried and have to apply again later, so I found out he send request to other ladys, and he was drunk this night and he told his mother had he done this and she said no matter what I’m always welcome and that God would not forgive him. In Tunisia, it is not allowed, with multiple wives and not like many other countries, to only be married in Islam, a civil wedding is required and a marriage certificate from one’s home country must be included and they are against the fact that they have to be married to get visas, then isn’t that what they are fighting for as well, finding a woman who will respect them and love them and come to them.
I think he became a rat, towards me, until he learned, its not okay to get drunk and use it as explanation, but I know aswell, the men in my country are all like this, even the girlfriends men.
So when are you naive?

I will now tell my story. I met a man in Tunisia in 2017. I was 24 and believed that he really loved me. He said the right words. He never wanted money or gifts. When I came back for the first time, he had rented an apartment for us and I mean, it was very expensive and cost his entire salary. I was happy and always thought that he meant it. But he never shared photos of me and him on the internet. He deleted our relationship status after a few days and I mean, it only happens because he doesn’t know anything about it. He simply removed me as a friend. I gave up. There were always some excuses. He was very jealous and constantly angry if anyone even looked at me. Whenever I came, he always made me pay for the hotel room and told me how bad the hotels we went to were and which ones were good (unaffordable for me). I broke up with him after almost 2 years of being together when he saved my Facebook password on his phone without my knowledge. So he looked to see when I got messages. And at some point he spoke to me about it and then I knew. So I broke up. But because of his love bombing I always thought that I had lost the love of my life. So we got in touch again at the end of 2022. Again he said the right things, wanted us to get married now and finally live together because we had wasted so much time. I surprised him and flew there without him knowing. On the first day he told me we just don’t fit together and it will never work. Again and again he said bad things to me and at the same time how much he loved me. I wanted to be with him so I stayed and we wanted to get married in March 2024 (the dress was already at my house). Until he lost control on vacation in November 2023 and hit me. He threw a full water bottle at me and I had a huge hematoma on my ribs. I’m sure one had broken out too, I was in so much pain. When I wanted to leave the room crying, he pulled me back and forced me to stay in the same room with him. I was scared but stayed with him the rest of the time and broke up after the vacation. 4 weeks later I found out I was pregnant and full of fear I wrote to him. We were together again. I didn’t want my child to live without a father. Now he knew that he had me in his hands and he became arrogant and even worse than before. After 10 weeks I lost the child. I was very sad and he didn’t understand. I broke up with him again in January. After that he kept trying to get in touch with me and said his life was now shit. But then I found out here that he was with another woman at the same time from June 2023 to February 2024. The woman wrote to me and told me everything. I confronted him with it even though we were no longer together at that time. He said that she was better than me and that he didn’t argue with her like he did with me. When asked why he stayed with me, he said he really loved me. He told her that he always broke up with me and not me and that I had never shown any evidence of pregnancy. I showed him everything during the video call. So I had no complaints except for the pregnancy test and the first ultrasound image. This man lies whenever he can to his advantage and manipulates you until he gets what he wants. I’ve woken up now. This man never loved me. No matter how great it felt and how he always made me feel like I was the only one for him. In the end, it was only the visa that interested him.