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Holiday Love Rats Forum- Love Stories or Red Flags? Latest Questions

🚨 Important Announcement: Group Rules Update 🚨   We have updated our group rules to enhance the safety and security of everyone. These changes are designed to create a better and safer experience for all members. Please take a moment to review the new rules to ensure a positive and respectful environment.   ✅ No personal info, Doxxing, or outside contact : -Don’t post or comment last names, social media usernames, phone numbers, addresses, employers, or any other personal or contact information that would make it possible for members or bad actors to look up or contact someone posted here. -Adding this information greatly increases the chances that they will find out they were posted. It’s about protection. Not retaliation. -Don’t look up, provoke, or harass anyone posted. -Don’t contact the spouse, family, or employer of anyone posted.   ✅ It’s about protecting women, not judging the men : -Mean, judgmental, or unnecessary comments about anyone posted here ...Read more

🚨 Important Announcement: Group Rules Update 🚨

 

We have updated our group rules to enhance the safety and security of everyone. These changes are designed to create a better and safer experience for all members. Please take a moment to review the new rules to ensure a positive and respectful environment.

 

✅ No personal info, Doxxing, or outside contact :

-Don’t post or comment last names, social media usernames, phone numbers, addresses, employers, or any other personal or contact information that would make it possible for members or bad actors to look up or contact someone posted here. -Adding this information greatly increases the chances that they will find out they were posted. It’s about protection. Not retaliation. -Don’t look up, provoke, or harass anyone posted. -Don’t contact the spouse, family, or employer of anyone posted.

 

✅ It’s about protecting women, not judging the men :

-Mean, judgmental, or unnecessary comments about anyone posted here will get you banned. -Don’t make comments based on a guy’s looks, attire, name, age, or occupation. -Don’t comment on any guy unless you have personal experience with them or relevant information about them. -Don’t make jokes about anyone or speculate about men you don’t personally know. -Other women have different preferences in men than you. Respect them. -Don’t laugh react at posts that aren’t specifically meant to be funny.

 

✅ No libel, no defamation, or copyright infringement :

-No false information about anyone will be tolerated. -Please be prepared to show proof of anything you state about any individual. -You are posting at your own risk. If you don’t have any proof of allegations you make against someone posted in this group, you are in danger of being sued for libel and/or defamation. Don’t post any pictures that infringe upon or violate someone else’s intellectual property rights or copyrights. We do not accept any responsibility for anything you post or comment.

 

✅ Treat other women with dignity, care and respect :

Any woman who posts in this group should feel safe in doing so and should not be the target of attack, harassment, or coercion. We don’t tolerate any bullying, gaslighting, shaming, victim blaming, or aggressive behavior. Women get shamed and attacked for their opinions in society enough as it is. We don’t have any room for that here. There’s no room for “tough love” here. Always show compassion. We don’t tolerate members 🍒 showing hate towards or posting any other women in any circumstances.

 

✅ Be civil, understanding, inclusive and calm:

 

Hate speech or racism in any form will lead to immediate banning from the group. We understand that you may not agree with a person’s opinion, life choices, preferences, etc. Do not push your views upon other members. Do not show hostility towards other members. If you can’t word your disagreement in a civil and respectful way, don’t say anything at all. If someone is mean or breaks a rule, do not start arguing with them. Report it and disengage. Arguing back risks removal for both of you.

 

✅ Show patience and respect to admins and moderators :

If you need help, message admins or moderators.

Be patient when waiting for a response. We can’t respond to everyone. Don’t argue with the admins or moderators. Show aggression towards an admin or moderator and you will be banned. We’ll remove any content that we believe may get flagged by Facebook. We may remove content without explanation. We no longer argue with former members about why they were banned.

 

✅ We will ban you instantly if you do the following :

 

Do NOT share ANYTHING posted within this group with anyone outside of it.

This includes: – Men – even if they are friends. Especially if they are posted. – Women, or anyone, that are not also members of the group. Sharing or screenshotting ANY information shared within the group will result in an INSTANT and irreversible ban. With this in mind, sharing what’s posted within this group can potentially put women in HARMS WAY and it’s DANGEROUS.

 

✅ Please follow these guidelines for posting in this group :

 

– POSTS MUST INCLUDE a story…are you in a relationship with the man posted about? What made you post about him? Just tell the full story or they will be declined . We will not answer questions about posts. Read feedback given. Continued refusal to follow rules will result in a BAN.

 

✅ Reach Out Before Deleting:

 

If you feel the need to delete a post after it’s already posted, please contact the admins first.

We can discuss your concerns and find a solution that respects both your feelings and the efforts of those who responded.

 

Thank you for your cooperation and understanding! 💬

 

Stay safe.

Holiday Love Rats & Tunisia Love Rats group admins and moderators ❤️

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Its sad we need to have a group like this, but its lovely to see members supporting each other and offering advice. However, sometimes the advice being given (especially when it comes to involving authorities) is crap and not true to put it simply. If you are going to offer advice about Police, Embassies, Marriage, Divorce etc, please give factual up to date advice only. Thank you

Its sad we need to have a group like this, but its lovely to see members supporting each other and offering advice. However, sometimes the advice being given (especially when it comes to involving authorities) is crap and not true to put it simply. If you are going to offer advice about Police, Embassies, Marriage, Divorce etc, please give factual up to date advice only.
Thank you
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Dear Members, We deeply value the experiences and stories shared within this group. Every post not only represents your journey but also resonates with others who may have gone through similar experiences. When you share, you’re not just seeking support—you’re contributing to a collective understanding that helps everyone move on from an aweful experience with a love rat. However, it’s disrespectful when members delete their posts after receiving the advice, support, and encouragement from the group members. When others take the time to offer their help, they’re sharing a part of themselves, often reliving their own memories to assist you. Deleting your post can feel like a waste of the time, effort, and emotional energy others have invested in you. We understand that some memories can be painful, and it’s not ...Read more

Dear Members,
We deeply value the experiences and stories shared within this group. Every post not only represents your journey but also resonates with others who may have gone through similar experiences.
When you share, you’re not just seeking support—you’re contributing to a collective understanding that helps everyone move on from an aweful experience with a love rat.
However, it’s disrespectful when members delete their posts after receiving the advice, support, and encouragement from the group members.
When others take the time to offer their help, they’re sharing a part of themselves, often reliving their own memories to assist you. Deleting your post can feel like a waste of the time, effort, and emotional energy others have invested in you.
We understand that some memories can be painful, and it’s not always easy to leave them out in the open. But it’s through sharing these experiences that we all learn and heal together.
We want this group to be a safe space where everyone’s contributions are valued and respected.
Because of this, we have decided on the following guidelines:
Posts Should Be Considered Carefully:
Before you post, please ensure you’re comfortable with creating your story.
If you’re uncertain or think you might want to delete it later, we kindly ask that you refrain from posting until you are sure.
Reach Out Before Deleting:
If you feel the need to delete a post after it’s already posted, please contact the admins first.
We can discuss your concerns and find a solution that respects both your feelings and the efforts of those who responded.
Consequences for Deleting Posts:
To maintain the integrity and trust within our group, we will unfortunately have to remove members who delete their posts without prior notice or a valid reason.
We don’t make this decision lightly, but it’s necessary to protect the supportive environment we’ve all worked so hard to create.
We encourage everyone to share honest and genuine stories. Your experience matters, and so does the support you receive. Let’s continue to help each other with respect and understanding.
Thank you for being a part of this group and for your cooperation.
The Admin Team.
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Thanks to Our Incredible Members Dear Tunisia Love Rats Group members, We wanted to take a moment to express our deepest gratitude to each and every one of you. Your unwavering support, dedication, and kindness have been a beacon of hope for those who have suffered at the hands of love rats. Together, we’ve created a safe space where victims can share their stories, heal, and find the strength to move forward. Your compassion and willingness to help others have made a real difference in so many lives. It’s truly inspiring to see how our group has come together to lift each other up ...Read more

🌟 Thanks to Our Incredible Members 🌟
Dear Tunisia Love Rats Group members,
We wanted to take a moment to express our deepest gratitude to each and every one of you. Your unwavering support, dedication, and kindness have been a beacon of hope for those who have suffered at the hands of love rats.
Together, we’ve created a safe space where victims can share their stories, heal, and find the strength to move forward.
Your compassion and willingness to help others have made a real difference in so many lives. It’s truly inspiring to see how our group has come together to lift each other up during difficult times.
Thank you for being there, for listening, for sharing, and for making this group a place of comfort and recovery.
Let’s continue to support one another and spread love and positivity to those who need it most.
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Reporting a scam to your bank is crucial to protect your finances. Here are steps you can take: Contact Your Bank Immediately: Call your bank’s customer service as soon as you suspect a scam. The sooner you report it, the better chance you have of preventing further damage. Provide Details: Be prepared to provide specific details about the scam, such as the date, amount, and any relevant transaction information. The more information you can provide, the easier it will be for the bank to investigate. Follow Bank Procedures: Your bank will likely have specific procedures for reporting fraud. Follow their instructions carefully, and provide any documentation they request. Close Compromised Accounts: If the scam involves a compromised account, consider closing it to prevent further unauthorized transactions. Change Passwords: Change your online banking passwords and any other passwords associated with your financial accounts to enhance security. File a Police Report: In some cases, banks may ask you to file a police report. This ...Read more

Reporting a scam to your bank is crucial to protect your finances. Here are steps you can take:

  1. Contact Your Bank Immediately:
    • Call your bank’s customer service as soon as you suspect a scam. The sooner you report it, the better chance you have of preventing further damage.
  2. Provide Details:
    • Be prepared to provide specific details about the scam, such as the date, amount, and any relevant transaction information. The more information you can provide, the easier it will be for the bank to investigate.
  3. Follow Bank Procedures:
    • Your bank will likely have specific procedures for reporting fraud. Follow their instructions carefully, and provide any documentation they request.
  4. Close Compromised Accounts:
    • If the scam involves a compromised account, consider closing it to prevent further unauthorized transactions.
  5. Change Passwords:
    • Change your online banking passwords and any other passwords associated with your financial accounts to enhance security.
  6. File a Police Report:
    • In some cases, banks may ask you to file a police report. This is especially important if you’ve been a victim of identity theft.
  7. Check Other Accounts:
    • If you suspect your personal information is compromised, check other financial accounts for any suspicious activity.
  8. Monitor Your Accounts:
    • Keep a close eye on your bank statements, credit reports, and any other financial accounts. Report any additional suspicious activity promptly.
  9. Consider Fraud Alerts:
    • Discuss with your bank the option of placing fraud alerts on your accounts to provide an extra layer of protection.
  10. Educate Yourself:
    • Learn about common scams and how to recognize them to avoid falling victim in the future. Stay informed about the latest scam trends.

Remember, reporting a scam promptly is crucial, and working closely with your bank will increase the likelihood of resolving the issue and recovering any losses.

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  1. These guys are getting rich over good hearted women

    These guys are getting rich over good hearted women

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It’s not uncommon for individuals to struggle with letting go of a relationship, especially when it involves a love rat. There are several psychological and emotional factors that contribute to this difficulty. Firstly, love rats often employ manipulative tactics that create a strong emotional bond. They may have presented themselves as caring and loving, making it challenging for you to accept the betrayal and move on. Additionally, the investment of time, emotions, and energy in the relationship can make it harder to detach. You may be holding onto the initial positive experiences and hoping for a return to that idealized version of the relationship. Feelings of embarrassment, shame, or self-blame can also contribute to the struggle in forgetting a love rat. Accepting that you were deceived can be emotionally taxing, and it may take time to process these emotions. To help you move forward, consider seeking support from friends, family, or a therapist. Talking ...Read more

It’s not uncommon for individuals to struggle with letting go of a relationship, especially when it involves a love rat. There are several psychological and emotional factors that contribute to this difficulty.

Firstly, love rats often employ manipulative tactics that create a strong emotional bond. They may have presented themselves as caring and loving, making it challenging for you to accept the betrayal and move on.

Additionally, the investment of time, emotions, and energy in the relationship can make it harder to detach. You may be holding onto the initial positive experiences and hoping for a return to that idealized version of the relationship.

Feelings of embarrassment, shame, or self-blame can also contribute to the struggle in forgetting a love rat. Accepting that you were deceived can be emotionally taxing, and it may take time to process these emotions.

To help you move forward, consider seeking support from friends, family, or a therapist. Talking about your feelings can provide valuable perspectives and assistance in navigating the healing process. Establishing new routines, focusing on self-care, and engaging in activities you enjoy can aid in the recovery journey.

Remember, healing from a deceptive relationship takes time, and it’s okay to seek professional help if needed. Be patient with yourself, and gradually, you’ll find the strength to let go and move on to healthier relationships.

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This section is dedicated to sharing and celebrating success stories in relationships. Whether you’ve experienced a heartwarming journey of love, triumphed over challenges, or found joy in your companionship, we invite you to share your uplifting tales. Your stories can inspire and offer valuable insights to others navigating the complexities of relationships. Join us in fostering a positive and supportive community by contributing your own stories of relationship success!

This section is dedicated to sharing and celebrating success stories in relationships. Whether you’ve experienced a heartwarming journey of love, triumphed over challenges, or found joy in your companionship, we invite you to share your uplifting tales. Your stories can inspire and offer valuable insights to others navigating the complexities of relationships. Join us in fostering a positive and supportive community by contributing your own stories of relationship success!

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Love rats can have a devastating effect on women’s financial well-being. These deceitful individuals often manipulate emotions, leading victims to invest significant time, trust, and even money in the relationship. As the scam unfolds, victims may find themselves facing financial losses, often struggling to recover from the emotional and monetary toll inflicted by love rats. It’s crucial to stay vigilant and prioritize one’s financial security when navigating relationships. Read more

Love rats can have a devastating effect on women’s financial well-being. These deceitful individuals often manipulate emotions, leading victims to invest significant time, trust, and even money in the relationship. As the scam unfolds, victims may find themselves facing financial losses, often struggling to recover from the emotional and monetary toll inflicted by love rats. It’s crucial to stay vigilant and prioritize one’s financial security when navigating relationships.

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  1. These manipulative individuals often exploit emotions to gain financial benefits. Victims may find themselves investing time, trust, and money in the relationship, only to suffer substantial financial losses when the deceit is revealed. Recovering from such scams can be challenging, emphasizing theRead more

    These manipulative individuals often exploit emotions to gain financial benefits. Victims may find themselves investing time, trust, and money in the relationship, only to suffer substantial financial losses when the deceit is revealed. Recovering from such scams can be challenging, emphasizing the importance of financial awareness and caution in relationships to protect against these harmful effects.

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People may choose to stay in relationships that they constantly complain about for various reasons, including: Familiarity and Comfort: The fear of the unknown or the comfort of the familiar might lead individuals to stay in relationships, even if they are not entirely satisfied. Change can be daunting, and some may prefer the security of the known, even if it’s not ideal. Investment in the Relationship: People may have invested a significant amount of time, effort, or resources into the relationship. This investment, whether emotional or material, can create a sense of obligation to try and make the relationship work. Fear of Being Alone: The fear of loneliness or the uncertainty of being single can be powerful motivators. Some individuals might stay in a relationship, even an unsatisfactory one, to avoid the perceived challenges of being alone. Hope for Improvement: Despite complaints, individuals may hold onto the hope that the relationship will improve over ...Read more

People may choose to stay in relationships that they constantly complain about for various reasons, including:

  1. Familiarity and Comfort: The fear of the unknown or the comfort of the familiar might lead individuals to stay in relationships, even if they are not entirely satisfied. Change can be daunting, and some may prefer the security of the known, even if it’s not ideal.
  2. Investment in the Relationship: People may have invested a significant amount of time, effort, or resources into the relationship. This investment, whether emotional or material, can create a sense of obligation to try and make the relationship work.
  3. Fear of Being Alone: The fear of loneliness or the uncertainty of being single can be powerful motivators. Some individuals might stay in a relationship, even an unsatisfactory one, to avoid the perceived challenges of being alone.
  4. Hope for Improvement: Despite complaints, individuals may hold onto the hope that the relationship will improve over time. They might believe that with effort or changes, the issues causing complaints can be resolved.
  5. Social or Cultural Expectations: Societal or cultural norms, family expectations, or religious beliefs can influence individuals to stay in relationships. The pressure to conform to these external expectations may override personal dissatisfaction.
  6. Financial Dependence: Economic factors, such as financial dependence on a partner, can make it difficult for someone to leave a relationship. The perceived inability to support themselves can be a significant barrier to ending a problematic relationship.
  7. Children and Family Ties: For those with children, the desire to maintain a stable family environment or the fear of disrupting their children’s lives can be a powerful reason to stay in a relationship. Family ties, in general, can create a sense of obligation.

It’s essential to recognize that each person’s situation is unique, and the decision to stay in a challenging relationship is influenced by a complex interplay of emotional, social, and practical factors.

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  1. Relationship is a need. When you are at a primary stage of relationship, you do everything for making him or her happy. If you are able to do that, you feel immense pleasure, specifically if your partner acknowledges it. You feel that the person you idolise as symbol of love is appreciating you. PsyRead more

    Relationship is a need. When you are at a primary stage of relationship, you do everything for making him or her happy. If you are able to do that, you feel immense pleasure, specifically if your partner acknowledges it. You feel that the person you idolise as symbol of love is appreciating you. Psychologicaly your mind associates that person with your sense of happiness, inner peace, desires etc. You feel to have a person to depend on…a sort of codependency develops.

    But over a period of time, this becomes usual and you are no more noticed or appreciated with equal enthusiasm. So the perception about your partner changes. Now you start feeling a lack in your inner feelings and you find your partner responsible for it. Accordingly the talks, subjects, agendas, volume pitch…everything changes.

    So the people who says that relationships are bad, are standing at that stage… But the codependency is not

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