I travelled alot to tunisia from the age of 14 with my family for holidays. I met someone there a year later he was tunisian. We kept in touch for many years, I visited with family maybe twice a year. Both our families were very good friends. For some reason we lost touch at the age of 19/20. Im now 43 and 3 years ago we got back in touch through Instagram. It was like we’d never lost touch, the sad thing was he was getting married the same year. The spark was still there between us and he wished we had connected sooner than we had. You know what? Not once did he ever ask me for anything, no money, no visa, nothing, so not all of them are rats. And he’s also stayed faithful to his wife even though he’s still in love with me.