I will now tell my story. I met a man in Tunisia in 2017. I was 24 and believed that he really loved me. He said the right words. He never wanted money or gifts. When I came back for the first time, he had rented an apartment for us and I mean, it was very expensive and cost his entire salary. I was happy and always thought that he meant it. But he never shared photos of me and him on the internet. He deleted our relationship status after a few days and I mean, it only happens because he doesn’t know anything about it. He simply removed me as a friend. I gave up. There were always some excuses. He was very jealous and constantly angry if anyone even looked at me. Whenever I came, he always made me pay for the hotel room and told me how bad the hotels we went to were and which ones were good (unaffordable for me). I broke up with him after almost 2 years of being together when he saved my Facebook password on his phone without my knowledge. So he looked to see when I got messages. And at some point he spoke to me about it and then I knew. So I broke up. But because of his love bombing I always thought that I had lost the love of my life. So we got in touch again at the end of 2022. Again he said the right things, wanted us to get married now and finally live together because we had wasted so much time. I surprised him and flew there without him knowing. On the first day he told me we just don’t fit together and it will never work. Again and again he said bad things to me and at the same time how much he loved me. I wanted to be with him so I stayed and we wanted to get married in March 2024 (the dress was already at my house). Until he lost control on vacation in November 2023 and hit me. He threw a full water bottle at me and I had a huge hematoma on my ribs. I’m sure one had broken out too, I was in so much pain. When I wanted to leave the room crying, he pulled me back and forced me to stay in the same room with him. I was scared but stayed with him the rest of the time and broke up after the vacation. 4 weeks later I found out I was pregnant and full of fear I wrote to him. We were together again. I didn’t want my child to live without a father. Now he knew that he had me in his hands and he became arrogant and even worse than before. After 10 weeks I lost the child. I was very sad and he didn’t understand. I broke up with him again in January. After that he kept trying to get in touch with me and said his life was now shit. But then I found out here that he was with another woman at the same time from June 2023 to February 2024. The woman wrote to me and told me everything. I confronted him with it even though we were no longer together at that time. He said that she was better than me and that he didn’t argue with her like he did with me. When asked why he stayed with me, he said he really loved me. He told her that he always broke up with me and not me and that I had never shown any evidence of pregnancy. I showed him everything during the video call. So I had no complaints except for the pregnancy test and the first ultrasound image. This man lies whenever he can to his advantage and manipulates you until he gets what he wants. I’ve woken up now. This man never loved me. No matter how great it felt and how he always made me feel like I was the only one for him. In the end, it was only the visa that interested him.